So, I've come to realize that SEX has been the cause of many problems in society and I'm gonna blame most of it on the glorification of sex in the media. Sex is everywhere and we are constantly reminded of it, seemly training to think about it at all times. From R. Kelly to Trey Songs, from Trina to Nicki, to commercials about deodorant and gum; we are being bombarded with images of sweaty hetero "couples" getting it on with perfect bodies and lighting. It takes over our soul and then we act irrational based on these thoughts and feelings of lust that we've been brainwashed with. This then leads to irresponsible relationships where both (or more) parties have nothing to connect on but their private parts.
Now, I'm not a man so I can't speak for them but in my opinion, women were never meant to just give it up to a man for no real gain but sexual pleasure. I have yet to see it pan out in a majorly positive way for them (excluding Jenna Jameson). They either end up heartbroken, pregnant or completely disrespected, but in many cases all three. Brokenhearted because sex releases emotions that otherwise would never see the light of day (or night), pregnant because sex really does feel better without a condom (it’s a law of physics) and disrespected because...well, I'm still a big confused about this one but I think it's because people are far too judgmental of others and then act upon those observations. I think that girls (because women SHOULD know) that all these things are very real dangers, most being the respect issue because positive things can come out of being heartbroken (you sure do learn a lot down there) and/or pregnant. But when you put yourself in a position to be disrespected it's pretty clear that you already have a lack of respect for yourself and it just keeps deteriorating with every "emotionless" sexual act you give out. This then makes it “ok” for guys to say and do whatever they want when it comes to you because, “Hey, she doesn’t respect herself so why should I.”
Bottom-line, I know it's wrong to judge other for any reason and I rarely do, but if you know that promiscuity can and will lead to such horrible things such as loss of self-respect (not to mention stds) why do it?! Why? Because we're programmed to be horny reckless brutes who live by carpe diem and don't think until after we nut...We're fucked...so to speak.
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