F* Love, I'm Tired of Trying

You can't love someone without first loving yourself, right? So what do you call it when you love somebody else so much that you stop loving yourself?  Was it ever love to begin with? Probably not. There are no fairytale romances, and if you thought there were then you're probably only seeing what that certain "perfect" couple wants you to see (trust me, I've done it). The "love" your grandparents experienced is extinct. Love is not something that is just handed to you one day out of the blue, although we all like to believe it is. Real love takes work and these days people are just not hard workers. But hey with a subject like love, don't hold me to this entry, my opinion might change tomorrow. :-/